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a hero dies in afghanistan

sadly, this headline can now be written daily.  but, this particular story has touched me deeply, since it was our friend.  he was killed in afghanistan on friday.  the scenario is devastating and hard for me to wrap my head around.  please read below for some details and please consider donating to his nonprofit organization, in his memory and to remember all those who sacrifice their freedom each day.   i don’t ever solicit, but this means a lot to me.

 Benjamin Sklaver

benjamin sklaver, 32, an army reservist, was on patrol friday in muscheh, afghanistan, when his unit was ambushed, possibly by a suicide bomber. after spending 2007 building water infrastructure in africa with the reserves, sklaver returned to atlanta energized to do more.  he started a nonprofit group called the clearwater initiative that has provided clean drinking water to populations affected by natural or man-made humanitarian emergencies.  the projects are focused on conflict-affected areas of northern uganda.  the company had brought clean drinking water in the form of wells to more than 6,500 people since 2007.  the company’s goal is to “directly impact the lives of more than 10,000 people by 2012.”  it doesn’t cost very much money, $1,000 or $2,000, to build a well … that supports a village for an indefinite period.  and, this is what he was passionate about.

he was called for his second tour of duty in the spring and was deployed to afghanistan where he was also working on building infrastructure, enabling villagers to resist the insurgency.  villagers could return to their old village if they had clean water there.

please consider donating here in his memory and to continue his work and passion.

information adapted from an AJC article reporting on Ben’s death

shower me with baby love.

we have been so grateful to have two of the most amazing baby showers for our little jack-a-roo.  it’s overwhelming to think of how much everyone did, and i don’t quite know how to explain what it means to me, which is why i think i was putting off writing this post.  i wish every baby could come into this world as fortunate as baby jack.

here’s a peek at some of the fabulousness from our showers:

adorable paper lanterns

delicious brunch and adorable decoartions

jack's new stuffed elephant

sweets table with a candy bar and a "jack" cake!

posing with our absolutely fabulous hosts

to my most amazing aunts and uncles, jessica, and lynne: thank you so much for the most beautiful and fun baby showers i could’ve imagined.  to all our friends and family:  thank you for sharing one of your saturdays with us and for your very thoughtful and generous gifts.
and to sweet baby jack: your room is now fully decorated and filled with adorable blankets, soft stuffed animals, things i didn’t even know existed before expecting- a Boppy pillow and a baby Bjorn, stylish little outfits, and many fun books.  we hope you will love it as much as daddy, sadie, and  i do!  come soon, ok?  we love you already.

blue whale boutique

i am so excited to announce the website launch and grand opening of a fantastic new online store- blue whale boutique

blue whale boutique is a cottage shop started by one of my besties (i am SO proud of her!!!) offering super cute and unique handmade creations for children ( ages newborn through age 8 ) and even a few treats for their mommies.  everything they sell is handmade or embellished with hand crafted finishes.  in addition to her own handmade goods, she also carries the handmade goods of a few other local designers (all of whom are fabulous) - NanaBug, Shelly’s Handmade, Sweet Cherub, Handmade by Jen & “I’m This Many”.

please check out the site and indulge in some handcrafted fabulousness!

bwb stamp

loved ones

oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person; having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but to pour them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, knowing that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then, with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away.

–george eliot

leah patacca

i love leah’s jewelry! 

courtney earrings

dena necklace

leah names her pieces after loved ones.  the above necklace is named after her sister, dena (who happens to be my friend) and the necklace below is named after her sweet dog, lola.

lola necklace

aren’t her pieces fabulous??! 

all of her jewelry is handmade and she does great and unique pieces.  dena gave me one of her necklaces for my birthday and i wear it ALL the time- it goes with everything!  check out her site.  you (or your girl) will be happy that you did!

go cats!

we spent the past two weekends cheering for our davidson wildcats at two very exciting (well, one exciting and one exciting BUT disappointing) basketball games.  the first of our two weekends was spent in birmingham with my parents.  the four of us cheered LOUDLY as davidson pulled off a very close win against a sold-out crowd at samford.

final score, davidson at samforddavid and steph at samford

this past weekend, we were in charlotte and davidson with some of our college best friends—what a FUN weekend we had!  it was so much fun to be back in north carolina (the residency destination talk has begun…again!) and although davidson lost in a CLOSE game, we had a blast catching up with best friends and meeting baby elizabeth!

david and chris with their newly purchased black out shirtsthe davidson huddle

the girls

and, to make the situation even better, all of this davidson basketball watching has afforded me the pleasure of cheering, in person, for my favorite player, #42 ben allison! 

allison_ben

if anyone sees a shirt bearing a nickname for english ben, like barr’s white lobster or curry’s steff-in shirt found at a square game.com —PLEASE let me know.  i am dying to have one!  and, if you are reading this and do t-shirt design, i am digging the thought of a prince benjamin tee.

david and i don’t think we are very good luck for the team, so our attendance at the socon tournament is “to be determined”…

with or without us on the sidelines, good luck cats!  here’s wishing for another successful ride through march madness!

’tis the season

as usual, our christmas time in florida was most joyful!  this year, in particular, we had TONS of fun!

pensacola beach sign christmas ornament

over 5 days, we visited with family and even some dear high school friends,

stephanie and jessica loving on sadie

all the halstead grandchildren, minus laurin

ate at jerry’s drive-in (twice!), went to a christmas concert at the church where we were married, had 4 christmas celebrations (and got lots of nice new stuff),

our stockings!

sadie opening her interactive ball

family christmas picture 2008

shopped at some cute pensacola gift boutiques and at joe patti’s (of course), went out 3 times with cousins and aunts and uncles (SO fun!!!), AND attended a reheasal dinner, a wedding, and a christening.

girl cousins at the fish house

high school clan at rowe's christening

hope your holidays have been as great as ours.  here’s to a fabulous end to 2008!

meet our godson, nico

remembering the brave little girl

today, we hosted our first annual kentucky derby party. of course, we made mint juleps with fresh spring time mint from the farmer’s market, indulged in many great tasting finger foods, and celebrated the wonderful weather of a may afternoon. it was a lovely day shared by a fabulous group of friends. the highlight of the day came shortly after the completion of the horse race, when the ladies participated in a hat parade! hamilton, the only participant to sport a homemade hat, won our contest and got herself a big bottle of bourbon.

the tragedy of the little girl horse did not go unnoticed, making the memory of the day bittersweet.

here’s to eight belles, great friends, beautiful weather, fun hats, tasty drinks, and yummy food.